it's not that I think Tad's not allowed or healthy to be angry.
I didn't think you did. Maybe you missunderstood my comment of "(others may disagree with me here)". It was not intended for you. It was intended for anyone who feels that Tad should NOT be angry. He should be.
We are actually saying the same thing.
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Detaching would solve 90% of his issues.
Ayep.
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you need to be the one to walk away
Said another way....YOU and YOU alone Tad decide when this is OVER. She does not - YOU do.
Now are you gonna answer the questions or is your next post going to be about your XW? You know the typical post ....."I saw her today and she was talking to my son about her upcoming wedding" ..."I think she is really happy"..."I feel like dog doodoo"...blah blah blah...
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Live like it won't be long till you figure that out and let the rest go.
Great quote up there ^^^^^^^
You know a good friend of mine was recently diagnosed with cancer. She is divorced. Wanna know what you she says/thinks now.... "Ya know Eric...all that time I spent angry at my XH was such a waste - I should have spent more time living". SHe may survive her cancer - she may not. The lesson though is that life is really too short to be wasting away. Think about that.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
