h's behavior is like that of a child - he is now doing all the things he had professed to dislike in the past he is 47 and spending time with a girl who just turned 24 - tells people it is just a fling (but he puts a lot of effort into this relationship so who knows) he had told my sister he wants to find someone age appropriate and doesnt' want to be "that guy" who goes out with much younger girls
the nature of my work is that i am on for 2 or 3 weeks and then have one or 2 weeks off - my hours are very long, so on the days that i am working (4 days out of the week) he has our son as soon as i am off he leaves for the west coast (where he is from and we spend alot of time) he stays there til the day i start work again and much of the time i am working he is on the road anyway, for his job he is a glorified babysitter at this point
so is leaving his son all the time, something he always said he would never do
he has issues to be sure his parents were married 8 times between them and him mother left his family when he was a toddler
he is fairly detached from most people and has always seemed to have a something missing when reading peoples emotions - just venting again on this morning i thought i was past most of this
