He proceeded to aske what my plans were. Since last time he asked about my "secret plans" he got so upset I thought I'd try a different strategy to gauge his reaction (okay, I know I'm not suppose to care what his reaction is at all).
So, I told him what I was doing. He was a bit shocked, I think. He said, "You have some balls for going out to meet a bunch of people you don't even know. You'd better be ready to get attention you might not be looking for."
He also said something again about the outing on Saturday but it was more on the lines of "I'm glad you are reaching out to connect w old friends and meet some new people." It sounded sincere....which for me hurt b/c it was like hearing "I don't give a $hit if you go out & meet some new guys. It will make me feel better."
Coming to the blanket, bustin!
BINGO- is what H says all the time. Did you meet anyone, etc etc.
Basically they are looking to alleviate the guilt they feel and then can be justified in their decisions (because look at you moving on, I knew you didn't want me). Also H tends to fish about anyone who shows interest-much like yours tends to get mad at secret plans.
When he asks about tennis say you had a great time (big smile) chances are he will ask if you met new people (as a segue into "any men"). My response(to questions about new GALs) is always "Yes and the people are great, I learned so much" or "I felt a little out of practice..lol" or anything like that. But is always "Had fabulous time..."
