Thank you 25years, I like the idea of retoville or other options that include more time than one hour per night with a counselor. I may have her friend break the news of the OW H has been with.
I also like the idea of paving a road home for her. I am still trying to decide if I ask her to leave when I do break this news. She may do that anyway. If she leaves its harder to DB I believe. Stir search on that one.
Is it wrong for me to stop paying for this trainer? That isn't a boundary and more of an action she will resent. This is a hard one but I do not see any other option.
