WAS shows interest - what to do?

[25yearsmlc]

12cd

I hope you will gain some TOOLS for change, while you are working on the marriage, (or you aren't really working on it; you're just waiting).

I mean, she was missing something in herself or the marriage.

Chances are it's both. So YOU do have a role in this and that is good news, b/c it means you are not powerless. You can control you.

What has SHE COMPLAINED of, in the past? I assume you drink too much? Are you an abuser of alcohol? Can you cut down or stop drinking?

Can you let go of the past and go as the vows say "from this day forward"?

If you are going to hold her affair of 2 decades ago, over her head forever or use it as a reason to drink, still, then it's not too hopeful.

But if you want to take things from this day forward, and recover/restore your marriage, then this is the place to be (for a crummy reason!)

Good luck and keep posting often here. At first you'll be "moderated" so you have to post often before you see the replies.

TEll us more about the marriage and the issues YOU believe are valid and the issues SHE HAS SAID bother her. This is not a contest so don't worry about who complained the most, etc.

There is hope. Keep reading and keep posting.