i think you're doing the right thing. when it comes to your kids and what you think is in their best interest.. for their well being and their health.. can't be agreeing with H's methods if you don't agree with them. he gets upset or angry.. so what?
i forget your arrangement with him. the kids are living with you and he sees them weekly? or does he take them %50 of the time?
anyway.. your house.. your rules.. H chose to leave. yes, take into consideration what he says (as you're already doing) but ultimately.. the decision is up to you.
coparenting can be so extremely frustrating!
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11