Longshanks, I do need to work on myself more. I also agree that a "friend" would not treat me the way she has recently. I posted earlier that I am not sure if I trust my W. there was alot more to this but the point is if you don't have trust then you can't have a M or friendship.
Also, not sure if you were just speaking in generalities but my W has not cheated (that I know of. No evidence of it and I have searched). Just wanted to clear that up since the last part of your post was eluding to affairs/cheating.
I do appreciate your insight and input. Thank you for posting.


M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.