bklyn, i just read thru your posts...your h sounds like mine on so many levels....especially the fact is unattached to family and friends.. that describes mine to a t i think we may have a lot in common you mention shootings and wraps - do you both work in tv or film? i wish i knew how to attach my threads here...i am computer challanged
the way your h writes, so matter of factly, sounds like mine as well...i have been here many years now while my h addictions grow and grow (seemingly, at least) he has no idea what this is doing to our son he thinks everything is fine, because he has a big problem seeing peoples emotions...that has always been the case - which might be part of his ADD, or the effects of too much pot - i don't know - he has been smoking since his early 20's - he is now 47 anyway, i want to read back thru your sitch and hopefully i can be helpful at the very least, i will lend an ear and send a warm internet hug to you be well