I was still feeling good until I got home. She was telling me about how awful work is and how she had to get out. I felt so bad for her. I just stared at her thinking how bad I just wanted to hold her and how much I love her. Now I am back to feeling sorry for myself again. It is so hard to be around her and look her in the face. I just love her.
Grizz, you need to embrace this moment with W and validate what she is saying. Really listen. She was reaching out to you in this discussion. Go with the conversation and let it go deeper. Even if you think her getting a new job will lead her away from you. Can't believe everything she is saying and don't know exactly what she is thinking. You have to show her you believe in her and are on her side.
You were talking in your recent posts about her enabling friends being on her side. This is an opportunity for you to slowly chip away at possibly getting back on her side. Don't miss out on these opportunities but keep expectations for an immediate positive result low. It is a marathon.
