Of Feral Cats, and All That

[reachingHigher]

Oh, T^2, lots of issues, but at least she is reaching out to you.

Even though she hasn't eliminated all these replay behaviors (as neither has my H) are you getting more of a sense of "we" between the two of you?

Has there been more interest in affection from you...hugging and the like?

I copied Michelle's golden rules yesterday from the piecing forum. I really liked the "don't forget to laugh". A few days ago when H responded to an email of mine (not a forward but my own ideas) and said "HAHAHA!!!! That took me a while to get it! Hil-freakin-larious!!" I instinctively KNEW that was a good thing!

Does W joke with you much..texting or emails? It seems easier for me to joke with my H electronically. Sometimes it's so heavy when we see each other but then again we don't live in the same household.

H spent a couple of evenings ago here just with his headphones and his PC listening to comedy skits on YouTube and laughing a lot. I thought it was SO healthy

Hope tonight goes well for you, T,
Thinking of you as always,
And thinking very highly of you as always,
rH