Ditto all that, and kudos for how well you are handling the kids.
If you check out a thread with my name on it (started by someone else but I sort of adopted it b/c it's way shorter than mine are)
you'll see that I have realized a lot lately about our kids and their issues with a former WAS. And these are relationship troubles that came even WITH a reconciliation.
A WAS may say and believe he is "leaving the m, NOT leaving the kids" but to the kids (and to most of the world)
it's usually the same thing.
Also, I would NOT worry about your losing feelings for him. Part of it may be a protective measure, part of it may be a "reality" dart getting through to you and big parts of those feelings may return.
What is the worst that would happen if you decided, "he's Not the man for me anymore"??
And what's the best that could happen?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
