I dont know if anything can be "worked out". Something "clicked" a couple of weeks ago. I read up on narcissistic personality disorder.......bingo.
Out of the blue I got a little depressed thinking about my kids last night. I happened to drive by the park where I took my daughter to play during her first snow when she was a toddler. They have grown up in a broken family, exactly what I tried so hard to prevent.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13