Thanks! He is supposedly done with OW. I didn't ask about him dating when it was decided we would separate. But H offered up that this S wasn't for him to date other people, but work on himself. I know that he could be seeing her, or someone else for that matter. I just chose to not ask. I, however, did set the boundary that we would not be dating each other or having sex (because I am a woman who can do this and not get attached. I happend to have a ridiculously large drive and I'm pregnant to boot. I have no idea how this man had the time/energy to cheat smile ) until he did offer transparency and defriend her on FB.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D