Ok, this is from long ago, but I have been wondering about your sitch and here we are. Sometimes its hard here, since I did take a firmer line than most. I set similar boundries while H was home and he did end the affair, but wouldn't defriend OW on FB and be transparent so I said I needed those things or we need to S.
I need to see these harder lines, because we a month into S and I see both movement towards me...and then he freaks and has to remind me that our M can end. Really? I'm pretty sure I'm aware of that.
Anyway, I really enjoyed reading your sitch. Now on to Denver's. I hear his is similar.
Thanks for checking out my sitch, Tallula. I'm glad you got something out of it. Denver was definitely more patient than I was, but he was also very firm on "I can't be in your life so long as OM is," too.
I'll try to stop by your thread, as I haven't really followed your sitch.
