Ok, this is from long ago, but I have been wondering about your sitch and here we are. Sometimes its hard here, since I did take a firmer line than most. I set similar boundries while H was home and he did end the affair, but wouldn't defriend OW on FB and be transparent so I said I needed those things or we need to S.
I need to see these harder lines, because we a month into S and I see both movement towards me...and then he freaks and has to remind me that our M can end. Really? I'm pretty sure I'm aware of that.
Anyway, I really enjoyed reading your sitch. Now on to Denver's. I hear his is similar.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
