I guess the thing that gets me is that the only people that she discusses our sitch with are ones that are divorced or currently going through a D. She has totally shut out people who are promarriage. She has actually said that she wants to talk to people who will be "on her side". Really? She just wants a bunch of "yes men". That is what bothers me.
I had the exact same thing in my Sitch, almost verbatem. It is hard not to focus on it, but the fact is there isn't anything you can do about it. I can gurantee that your wife isn't looking for people that are pro-marriage or who are not supportive of her choice to leave your marriage. It is just not possible in the mind of a WAW....Stop thinking about it!
