GALing I have been spending a lot of time with my D3. I am working to finish projects around the house which was one of my W comlaints. I am reading an MBA book to better my business skills.

I have gone out with friends a few times but need to do it more often. I also havent met new people. I just dont really care ti know so many people really. I like to read etc.. not hang out with people and make small talk. I need to make an effort a this though.

As far as self esteem, I have been keeping myself looking good. I am also working to make my business more successful becuase that is a HUGE source of self esteem for me. It just saw happens that my W is attracted to my drive and determination to succeed so that is a bonus. I am generally a much more confident and pleasant person when I feel successful.

To be more attractive I have been working out and dressing btter. Wife has always been a fashion person and I not at all. So I am trying to bridge that gap but honestly its not easy. Fashion is definiteoy not natural to me.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017