Go to alanon. It could help you so much meet other mothers and woman with the same sitch as you. It too is anonymous. I know maybe people go to meetings in a neighboring town rather than their own town.

FWIW I think you absolutely should tell the other parents because it is the right thing to do and will show your son behavior to model if you do it respectfully.

What you are dealing with is so tough. Please take care of yourself


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13