Her running out she screamed at me in front of the mediator that is was disgusting and she tried to slam her door in my face. I stopped it and she scream at " I do not ever want to see you again." This destroyed me. The mediator told me that she needed professional help, now this is the fourth outside professional to tell me that. This is were I struggle, I care for her how can I stand by and let her go through that pain. Someone told me that she need to " crash and burn before she will get help". How can I not intervene? How can I just sit by and let that happen to someone. I know I need to let go..