I had dinner with her this weekend and it went well. She stated several times that she was very glad that I asked her out to dinner (she apparently thought I was still mad at her). She also stated without any prodding from me that she was not going to be ready to see anyone else for quite a while. I found this odd because I assumed she was seeing someone based on the condom I found and the fact that she was disappearing for entire weekends. Would she have gone out of her way to make this statement, if she was seeing someone? She followed that up by saying to me that she is not ready to hear about anyone that I am seeing and I should just keep it to myself.
At the end of the night when we went back to our respective rooms, she said to me that she had forgotten what a good friend I was too her. She did ask if we could remain friends and I said yes. She at no point hinted that she had any interest in reconciling though, so I still have no expectations of anything changing in that regard.
It's funny a few weeks ago she apparently hated everything about me and everything I did was wrong/bad. So whether we ever reconcile or not, it looks like this DBing stuff at least saved a friendship.
I'll keep doing what I'm doing, but if any one has any advice, I'd appreciate hearing it.
