I would suggest that you speak to a child therapist to find out what they believe is best for your D. I understand that X is trying to "better" herself but really this should be about what is best for your D - PERIOD.
I do believe that children can adapt; however, you may need to consider a few other things...
1) How will transportation work? Will your D have to deal with several hours in a car every week?
2) Long terms how does this work? What about things like birthday parties with friends, etc.?
3) How does/will this impact YOUR schedule..work, etc?
A lot to think about buddy. Personally, X wanted this and I do not believe that you, D should have to change YOUR lifes for the sake of your X. That said, why are you willing to compromise with your X? Is it really what you feel is best for your D OR do you have an expectation that this will "show" X the new you?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
