I agree with Accuray. I also wanted to elaborate on what I said about you getting in trouble. My friend's mom use to "turn a eye" and let us hang in the basement. We drank, smoked pot. A few years later it was the hang out for her sister too. Some of the parents caught wind of what was going on (not by the mom, obviously) and she was arrested. Yep. She didn't condone or buy it for us, just didn't check on us and stuff.

I think you leave youself more open to trouble if it happens again and you don't say something to the other parents that time.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D