Back and cruise was a lot of fun. Kids and I had a blast together and I went all out and acted more like my true self and didn't hold back.
Glad to see you back and glad you had a good time with the kids. Disney magic...it's all in how you look at it (I'm a Disney freak). And most of the fun, is because of the kids and allowing yourself to be one...
Originally Posted By: Spartan
But...I found out through a friend that W has been talking to a new guy that she works with and friend said it didn't look 'normal'.
I hate those stupid buts...
How does this change the fun you had on vacation?
How does this change what you are trying to do?
There could be many more of these...
You need to figure out sooner than later if you can forgive her or not.
Trust is the easiest thing to lose and the hardest thing to regain, whether it is one thing or lots of things...
If you can't forgive her, you won't trust her. If you can't trust her, or don't believe you will be able to rebuild it, or at least have the desire to try, you are wasting your time...
Originally Posted By: Spartan
I wish I felt more compassion but I'm getting sick of her attitude towards me, the marriage, other guys, etc... so I called her out on some stuff rather then try to understand like I had been
Did this hurt you or help you?
What can you do to make things different for you?
I wish stuff too...that I had a cat, that I had a million dollars, that I was taller...
Some stuff I can change, some stuff I can't. I accept that and do what I can to make my wishes come true. Of course, there is no pixie dust I can sprinkle to make myself taller, so I learned to be good being 4'10", and occasionally I wear high heels.
Done with the backslide yet?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
