Originally Posted By: SM34

Mother in law, who was a WAW herself 20 years ago, has told me before that the more you engage W, and the more you do stuff with her like go out to a concert or for dinner, the more it will put a strain on the Affair. her AP (who is now her husband) still has insecurities because the relationship did not start the way it should.


So your W's mother walked out on her H, had an affair and married the OP? Interesting.

Originally Posted By: SM34

W is on her way back now from OM. Shortest stay yet at just one night.


I don't understand why a shorter stay at OM's is viewed as some kind of positive step. Maybe OM had to be in line at GameStop for the release of a new video game, so your W had to cut the visit short. To me spending the night with OM again = fail.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57