SM, I'm fairly new here, but I've been following your thread. What is your DB coach saying about working on you? It seems that you are so completely caught up in what your W is doing that you are having a hard time moving forward with your life. I've learned one thing in my sitch. If I continue to do the same things and cr the same ways I will get the same results. Like the definition of insanity, "doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results"
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it