Yes I do have a tendency to look for signs. I spent this whole weekend reminding myself it is too early, and that W's A with OM will go through ups and downs. There will be periods of heavy texting etc.. and periods of not.
I was getting a little better at not looking for signs until my coach asked me to try light touch, engaging W in intellectual conversation, and "note" the changes or effects. So "note" is similar to watch for signs I guess.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
