Update: final papers are signed and filed with the court. I actually have moved forward, and I went out of a date actually. I enjoyed it. It was nothing serious. It was just a nice way for two people to share an evening together. XW found out about the date, and she seemed to be a little jealous. I don't say that to be critical of her. I am just a little confused. She brought up R talks, and she said that it was the man's job to pursue a woman, and I haven't done that with her. She said things like she has been holding back waiting for the family she wanted and for me to want her. I just don't know what to do. I would love to be with her; I am just confused, as during the D process, everytime I did pursue (anti-DB I know), she ran away screaming. I could just use some help here. Maybe I should put this in the Divorced forum, but I know this one gets more traffic.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013