He is a jerk. There are things I could forgive I understand part of why he had an affair but to leave the kids I can't forgive. That is the hardest thing for me and I am the one that has to pick up the pieces.
It would be different if he was here and the kids saw him all the time to introduce her but they have seen their dad 1 time since April 2012 and now he is coming with a new family. I think that is horrible.
They don't have US passports for that very reason. I am not sure how it works in England if he could get them a passport or not. He doesn't have their birth certificates or anything like that.
I have tried to take the high road a lot but I am afraid I can't with her. I told him not to bring her to my house. Their father is barely in their lives I am not to worried about this hag. I have not and will not bash their father or his choices to them but I am not going to make nicey nicey to her.
They know we are getting divorced, I think they actually think we are divorced. Should be has been years now. I think they are going to have a problem with the fact that they never see dad and now he is showing up with 2 other boys.
I don't know this is just not how I thought my life would be! I am trying to make the best of it but it is hard. In a normal divorce you would get a break at some point. I have the kids 100% of the time. I would rather have them 100% than 0% like their dad but doing everything for everyone wears a person down.
