Hi Ad ((( )))

I really have no advice, just a virtual shoulder.

It's so hard with teens because they think they will never get caught, they will never die, they can quit anytime they want.

Your kid is hurting and I know you see that. Guilt, anger, shame only add fuel to the fire, I'm afraid. Love him, keep the lines of communication open. You've already set some boundaries.

When I started going to AlAnon I expected to see mostly spouses when in fact the majority now are parents from all walks of life.

I know you will get good advice from your IC and your friend.

We're here to help keep you steady.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss