It does sound like things went quite well, I'd just caution not to read too much into anything that took place. It sounds like you didn't and that you maintained your distancing, so it sounds like you're taking the right approach. Your sitch is still quite young, it may be some time before your W really starts coming to terms with what she wants to do. For now she's still deep in the fog and will probably continue to do a lot of distance/ pursuit behavior. Just remember that when you do things like skiing by yourself or buying gifts for the kids do it for you and not because you're trying to get a reaction out of your W. If you're trying to gauge her reactions to everything she's going to sense that and perceive your actions as tricks to get her back.

Keep up the good work smile


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57