Thank you for all the recent comments. They do offer me so much support.
Everything that has happened has made me realise just how much my Wife has changed - I need to work out now whether I actually want to be with this new woman... Although, I do see glimpses of my old Wife - when we told our Son about my Dad, she was crying and holding my hand - comforting me - that's my real Wife!
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013