Confused by WAS

[Grizz]

Wow Adinva, I actually never thought of that as controlling. But that seems spot on. Stupid Grizz!
The odd thing is for the past 1-2 weeks I have actually given her more space than usual and it seems like we are now farther apart than ever. I just don't know the right thing to do. I will keep trying to give her space however.

I will say the one difference that I see when you compared me venting on here is that I would love to talk to her about it but she has stated the she definitely does not want to talk to me about it but she will talk to others about it is what hurts.

But I do see how what I did could fall under controlling behavior. Thank for pointing that out.