VG, it amazes me your comment about connecting to friends and not me. Just a few hours ago I walked into the room to ask W about dinner. She was texting with a friend about our sitch. I probably should not have even looked down at her phone but I did. When I saw this I rolled my eyes. She ask what was wrong. I said "do you know how hurtful it is that you can discuss our sitch with other people and not with me? That other people know more about your plans and feelings than I do." She said that she couldn't believe that I would be mad that she was talking with a friend about our sitch. I told her that I wasn't as much mad as hurt. She gave me the "whatever" look and that was it. Now coldness the rest of the night. And by the way, she stayed in the other room last night (for no real reason). She had been back in our bed for the past 2 weeks. And now in the other room again tonight. This time I know the reason.
Anger truly was not my emotion when I saw the text. I was really hurt. It's amazing how quickly and how easily one person can hurt you.


M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.