I waited before responding to your answer. When I started DBing I was willing to put up with anything. I told her if she has a BF to spend time with him. She denied having another man in her life. She appeared from her behavior to like girls. I told her if she was interested in girls to go for it. She got very angry at me for even thinking something like that about her At that time and now I wanted to know from her that I wasn't the cause of her unhappiness.