Hi JPnL.... welcome, I am newbie too & just wanted to empathize with you as, I too own a business together with my h... and wonder how to detach & go "dim" while still managing our responsibilities... Your business transactions seem different than mine however, as you do not seem to require daily calls/messages that keep me believing and in hope. Sometimes I am greatful for the silly messages, as something are better than nothing. And yet, at other times... i just wish he would go away, along with all the hurt/rejection I feel.

I hope one of the moderators or other members answer you soon. I have been waiting several days. I am learning "patience".

Take care,
waitingformagic

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)