Well, he's not MY therapist to fire, unfortunately.
Sorry if my posts were hard to read. You said you felt the same way I described it. I know I've gotten here because I've simply ridden this crazy train too many times before. I know the script by heart. I didn't get the impression that your sitch was like that. Maybe it was and I just missed that? I could probably relate to that in your case if my H had had a PA; just too hard to get past, I think. But your H has yet to admit to that, right? In any case, I completely relate. And I suspect your family is not making it easy either, because I could imagine they don't want you to go back to him either.
