Portia - I understand the hurt and confusion from you xSO not being there for you while your parent is gravely ill. Snodderlys recommendation to keep your expectation at zero is right on the money. Over the last year I have lost several significant people in my life. I expected after my grandmother passed that my W would at minimum reach out to my father and offer condolences. I was very disappointed. The alien that has ahold of our spouses is pure evil and will only cause more pain if you have some expectation that you sXO will offer some level of support. Please take care of yourself and my prayers are with you and your family.
M-49 W-47 M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994 No Children 4 dogs/2 cats EA 11/2010 Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us) As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...
