I think you're using the iphone again b/c I can't tell what you mean.."he must be an awesome person to want to get back with someone who hurt"...?? I'm confused (but that's not rare)
or maybe I misread D's story. But didnt' HE tell his w HE wanted out of the marriage first? Along the way, Sometime later, HE decided it was "not what he wanted" after all...but she had been very hurt and moved on.
D, I think you have some work to do but yes, it IS worth it.
Any chance your w would go to Retrovaille with you? IF NOT NOW, then maybe later. And I doubt now is the time.
You forced her to imagine life without you and she did. She MIGHT need to be released now to her task and discovering what life with others is like...or just life without you.
What made you change your mind? Also, all women are moved by loving interactions between their children and the fathers of those children. Be the best dad you can be now, more than ever.
She needs to see that the changes you are making are real and lasting, NOT just tactics to get her back, so that she learns to trust the new you. I sure would.
SO focus on YOUR CHANGES and forget the statistics for now.
If you wanted to make these improvements anyhow, what is there that is "wearing you" down? What's so hard to do that you'd quit?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
