Man, I hate reading your post right now. I really really do.
My H has agreed to all of my demands! Treatment, counseling and giving up his drinking buddy. I'm going home! Only I'm sick. Honest to God I'm sick to death. I love him, CV, I do. But in love? Ugh.
I can't believe the way you described your reaction. That's how I felt! Is it sick and wrong I just wanted to hear that he was not willing to do those things. I feel so wrong saying that. Can't even manage to say that to my b/f. It feels almost evil to say hey I wanted my H not to go get help so I could leave and have a clearer conscience. I know my thinking is bad. Ugh.
Fire the therapist. Seriously. Gross incompetence if you ask me.
