Hang in there, friend. I am an AZ guy, too. If you haven't read Divorce Remedy - get on that. There is always hope - but there is always a lot of work to do on yourself, too....and a lot of patience required. Let me say that again....a lot of patience required. And I will say it a third time just to make sure it's clear... A LOT of patience required.

What were your XW's complaints?

Crimson