it's been a long while since i've posted and yours was the first i read.
it never ceases to amaze me how very similar our paths seem to be.
that whole thing about worrying.. and feeling sad for H.. i get that. i know what you mean when you say he's not a friend but at the same time.. it's not this relationship where you just don't want to have anything to do with them because there is so much anger and resentment. i don't know..
the only thing i do know is that it's been pretty incredibly to see you through this journey. different from mine.. yet the same..
BF
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11