I have felt much less anxious since she moved out and we are getting along much better. I would worry that we may end up back at square 1 if she moved back in, but definately worth more thought.
Oh, and don't worry about this^^^, getting her back in your home is a step in the right direction for reconnection. You just have to take it slowly.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl