Adinva and 25. The thing is I had stopped snooping a long time ago. I feel the A. She is in will not last and then at that point I feel there is hope.

What started me on the snooping again was when several people on the board suggested that once this A is over there would OM2 possibilities.

So sometimes I feel like I need to see if she is talking to anyone else.

I need to stop it. Focus on what needs to be worked on.

So last night W is at OM and again she is carrying a conversation with me via text. Several times throughout the evening she was starting convos with me.

Unfortuntaly I couldn't go out last night because Im not feeling well frown

As far as the comment from W about me dating, how would I tell her it isn't appropriate? Wouldn't that seem like I am not moving on with my life? I just left it alone when she said that.


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017