Man, labug, I needed this today too. I feel so grateful to have found DB & the boards so early in in my sitch. I am having an emotional weekend and I was just thinking that I may have left my schedule too open with the kids gone. But, no. This is what I need. To feel these things, to look within. It's hard.
One of the things that I need to change is my disorganization. So, I've been purging my office. That has been giving me time to think...and worry. No more wasted worry today!
It is important to focus on the good parts of us too. We did not get into this alone. But the only thing that I an effect change in, is myself. It feels painfully slow at times, but I have hope.
Labug, awesome stuff as usual!
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