The View from the Blanket II

[littleGTO]

Hi, bustin,

After reading your posts tonight I realize what parallel situations we are in.

My H's mom died last summer and he was so emotionally connected to OW already that he shut me out. It was horrible to be alone w my grief and for him not to be willing to share this w me.

Now his dad is the hospital recovering from brain surgery and his sister is going to be starting chemotherapy for breast cancer. All of this he barely has talked to me about...I know he is sharing his pain w OW. So, deepens their connection.

I too need to let go. There isn't much I can do either.

I also like Starsky's post. I do feel like I'm spinning my wheels too w OW in the picture.

COming here to vent is very theraputic. I am right here beside you, b.