Asking a mother to trust someone else with her son's well-being, when there is no historical reference to prove that person is trustworthy with the child is incredibly unfair.
Originally Posted By: big bruce
Well, aren't moms trusted with 3 days old infants when they get out of the hospital? Nobody asks them to prove that they will be good moms or if they did it before. Why would W need to test or trial me before? Besides he's a toddler now. Is asking a little faith in me from her too much?
For real?!? At some point I really question if you are for real or just here to rile people up?! I mean, there is NO comparison to a new mother who WANTS her child, and a dad who PURPOSELY IGNORED his child his entire life. What reason in the world have you given her to have even a teeny tiny bit of faith in you. "besides he's a toddler". Did you even say this. Good luck. I have to stop reading this thread. Alot of people have tried to help. I feel badly for your W & hope you work to do right by your son.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
