Compliments & Passive Aggressiveness..Work to do!

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Oh 25, sorry I didn't answer your direct questions.

In my work, I used to interact with literaly a hundred or so people a day because I worked sales in my own retail store for 8 years.

The last four years the company has gotten big enough and I have enough employees to be that dude that sits in a big chair at a big desk.

Interesting you should ask that though. Since BD I have been working the "front" of the business much more than before. I'm using that as a way to build some confidence, and rejuvenate my social abilities. Plus i get hit on regularly so thats not a bad thing either! Women don't care that you are wearing a wedding ring it seems. Quite pathetic the disregard some people have for the marriage institution.

Speaking of being hit on, something interesting happened last week. I messaged wife on the way home from work to tell her I was going to pick up food from a local restaurant we both like.

Whenever I do that, i go sit at the bar and have a martini while I wait for the food to come. W knows there is this hot bartender (maybe 10 years younger than me..feel so old) that ALWAYS remembers that i drink my Martini with vodka and with blue cheese stuffed olives even though I only go there MAYBE once every 2 or 3 months.

So i walk in to the crowded bar, and the girl sees me and comes over to chat. She remember my drink and was already grabbing a glass. Then W messages me and asks me if that girl is there and if she remembered me. So I said yes actually, she is here, and yes she remembers me. So W says "Thats because she thinks your hot. You should leave her your business card".

I was a little upset honestly. My W is trying to have me date this chick? But I think my W knows me too well, and knows I wasn't going to do that. I wonder if I should have now, not to see her or to go on a date, but just to have her call me or something to scare the bejesus out of my wife!

So I walk in to the crowded