Why are you tormenting yourself with scenarios that you have conjured up out of thin air? What does DB tell you to do?
When you have decided you don't want to keep standing for your marriage, you have every right to make that decision. However, trying to base it on your prediction of future events is not a good idea.
What have you done so far to ensure that marriage to you might look different, and better, than before?
Also, have you ever noticed on these forums how very often a pull-back follows a positive experience with a WAS? Don't take it for any more than that, and keep showing compassion for her troubles and work on becoming a man only a fool would leave.
Nothing is written in stone.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
