Hi Italy. Your anger is a natural reaction. You were and are, very hurt. I can imagine it would be worse if you weren't hurt.

Kind of odd that he says he loves you, wants to keep the ring, but is moving out. Almost as if he is asking for some space and time to work things out on his own. As if he has conflicting feelings and doesn't know how to handle them.

MLC is a crazy thing. It really is. It's been described as being like eating cereal while sitting on the ceiling... smile

The story is long from over, Italy. Please post more as you can and take care of yourself. Don't act out of anger if you can help it, but know that you will be angry. Even if you do say some things you later don't like, know that having feelings is better than not having them. Be gentle on yourself and know you are going through some hard times. Just do your best to remember what you saw in this man for so many years. Remember those parts and let the rest fade as quickly as you can when you can.

Peace,
AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."