Back...here's a question: I have had a little chat here and there with my ex. Nothing about any of "that" stuff. Just a few technical things. Anyway, I am now in a place where I have accepted the divorce, I have worked and continue to work on myself FOR myself, I have connected with my family, friends, back to school, gained weight, bla bla bla. Everything is actually going perfect except for the fact that I'm still in love with my ex. And that's ok, too. I just love her now, I'm not feeling much pain anymore. I have still have my hopes but if I take action on that it won't be for a couple years at earliest. So, the question is: being at the position I'm in now, and in the shape I'm in now - is there really any reason for me to keep posting? Is there any reason for me to stay on this board? Should I keep posting just the regular life stuff? Doesn't really seem that's what the board is for. I guess I could stick around to help others.
